October 10, 2005
Laurence Herbert Scott (1933-2005)

A drawing by "El"
I think it was the spring of 2002. I started chatting online with a fella in one of those bear chat rooms.
Boy he had a way with words. All these delightful expressions and vim. Laurence was overly complimentary and quick to offer an ear or lend advice.
We moved to writing letters and phone calls. His voice boomed over the receiver with authority laced with self-deprication. A charming character, all around.
A lover of gardens he said I must come visit Ann Arbor, to see the (insert flowers) in bloom.
That fall I planned a trip to a lake house in Canada and a visit was entirely possible—a nice break in the jaunt actually.
So after 5 hours on rainy roads, I remember pulling into the driveway of the house he shared with his partner of over 30 years—who happened to be an excellent cook. After some quick introductions and to verify I had no food allergies, Gerry tended to dinner and Laurence gave me a tour of the place—packed neatly with books and art hanging on what seemed to be every square inch of the walls.
He hung with the beatniks. Made drawings for the New Yorker. Protested, well... everything (and had buttons for it.) He knew people with names I should've known.
And after dinner as I sat there digesting absolutely everything around me, I could not shake that I was privy to greatness.
I left after brunch the next day and as I walked to my car, Laurence stood there waving in the shadow of his front door. That was the last and only time I would see him.
Our friendship strengthened from that visit. We chatted and phoned and wrote even more. He'd send classical music I should know. He'd send cards of prints he'd made. He'd call whenever his computer was being difficult. And he'd tell me I must come visit again.
I said I would, and I meant it.
But I noticed late spring of this year, an unusual silence. So I called. I wrote. And there was nothing for me to do but think the worst.
I did my best hand at research online and could not unearth anything.
Until tonight.
I found out that Laurence passed away in June.
Now I'm reeling between tears, anger, and memories.
Laurence Herbert Scott
Scott, Laurence Herbert Ann Arbor, MI Laurence Herbert Scott was born in Detroit, Michigan to Harry and Lillian (Eder) Scott on November 17, 1933. He died on June 13, 2005. He grew up in Ann Arbor and graduated from Ann Arbor High School and the University of Michigan. He received an M.A. from Harvard and did further studies there in Slavic languages. At Harvard he was a tutor at Lowell House and he later taught at M.I.T.
While in Cam bridge, he started a small press that printed broadsides of poems by Ezra Pound, W.H. Auden, Robert Lowell, and Allen Gingsberg. He also printed and worked in long, close relationships with the poets Marianne Moore and James Merrill. In later years he designed gardens, was on the Dean Fund, and was very active in Gay-Feminist politics.
For the last 25 years he has been a consultant to Abby Rockefeller and represented her company Clivus Multrum in Canada and Michigan. Laurence was interested in preserving and enhancing the environment both locally and globally. Poet, artist, gourmand and gardener extraordinaire, Laurence was fluent in eight languages. He delighted in words and images.
Laurence was a loyal friend, adored by many, who will miss his wide intellect, startling wit, eclectic interests and passion ate joie de vivre. He is survived by his life partner of 35 years Dr. Gerald G. Naylor, and his brother Burton (Dedi), nieces and nephews.
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Comments
Sorry for your loss, Chris. That was a beautiful send-off. The obit is incredible, he must have been an amazing guy.
Posted by: dave @ radio free newport | Oct 10, 2005 7:55:06 AM
chris - i'm sorry to hear of the passing of your friend. i know you'll keep the memories of your meeting with you, always. it obviously made an impact on him as well. he seemed like quite the character and a good person. angie
Posted by: angie | Oct 11, 2005 8:22:27 AM
a sweet slice in your life... obviously a choice man, and friend. his memory will comfort you...
Posted by: A.J. | Oct 11, 2005 9:18:49 AM
Hey Chris--So sorry to hear of this. The memory and pain in your words come through. All I can say is be gentle with yourself and be patient. There is great joy and amazing wonder in the people we are lucky to call friends. There is also great sadness and deep sorrow when they die. My condolences on your loss.
Posted by: Sean | Oct 12, 2005 5:07:57 PM
I was wondering why I hadn't heard his rich sexy voice in so long, and now I know. Bearhugs Chris.
Frank
Posted by: Frank | Oct 12, 2005 7:28:07 PM
Thank you for putting in words what I feel in my heart, since my fingers went suddenly numb. I just learned about the passing of Laurence, my mentor and friend.
Posted by: yuri | Nov 6, 2005 5:55:02 PM
I met Laurence in the early 80's and visited his home he shared with Gerry many times. I married, moved away from Ann Arbor in 1991, and raised a family. The times I shared with Laurence and Gerry were some of the most unique experiences of my life. One of those was when he read Russian aloud to a few of us--I will never forget how rhythmical the language sounded as he spoke. I have just now learned of his death and this saddens me greatly. He was without a doubt the most unique person I have ever met in my life.
Posted by: Eddie | Oct 26, 2007 12:19:32 PM
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